All right all you wedding guests out there. This one is for you today.
Someone recently asked my friend if it was OK for guests to wear white to a wedding, and she responded: Depends on the bride. I say: Absolutely not. Never ever ever do that.
I am from the South. We have strong feelings about these things.
Certainly, the rules for guest attire have relaxed over the years. Black used to be a big no-no for weddings as well, but now it’s acceptable for evening weddings.
And you likely won’t raise any eyebrows if you wear a patterned dress with white in it, like the one above. It’s clearly not at all bridal-like.
But all-white is considered the bride’s color, so avoid it and anything similar to it: off-white, ecru, eggshell, etc. And no, a white cocktail dress with a ribbon or a shawl in another color is not OK. You’re still wearing what most would describe as a white dress.
True, some brides won’t mind. But the likelihood that someone will mind is high. Maybe the bride’s mother or grandmother will be bothered. You don’t want to upset them either. Or maybe the families won’t mind, but there could still be guests who will look at your outfit and think you’re trying to steal the spotlight from the bride. Why put yourself in that position?
So, in closing: Don’t wear white! There are many, many, many other colors out there in the world. Just wear one of those.
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