I knew Robert’s and my wedding week was going to be a whirlwind, but it was far more whirlwind-y than I ever anticipated. To help, I made an exhaustive list of items that myself and others needed to bring. We remembered almost everything.
What did we forget? Well:
- A hanger so my photographer could get a picturesque shot of my wedding dress. Alas, I didn’t take my dress out of its zip-up bag when it was steam-cleaned a few days before the wedding, so I failed to notice the wire hanger it was on. And it was too wet outside to hide the hanger in a tree shot. So: No lovely wedding dress photos for me, like the one above. Sigh.
- Double-sided tape. I go into why you need double-sided tape here, even if you don’t have a strapless dress.
- The sign for the sign-in book didn’t make it onto the table. This normally wouldn’t matter, but our sign-in book shared a table with the gifts and the photo booth props (the latter I wasn’t expecting), and a lot of people didn’t realize it was there.
- Tweezers. In the frenzy leading up to the wedding, I didn’t check in with my eyebrows, which I had waxed before going to Tennessee. They would have benefited from some upkeep, which I didn’t realize until those final hours before the wedding when I was tweezer-less.
- My father forgot the pocket square I bought him for the occasion. On the plus side, my brother remembered his!
Here are the items myself and others did remember to bring (that I was afraid we’d forget):
- The wedding rings!
- The marriage certificate!
- A second pair of shoes in case my first ones rubbed. And they did.
- Bridesmaids gifts. Right before the wedding was the only quiet moment I had with my bridesmaids all together, so I gave them their gifts then. If you can find an earlier time to do this, I recommend it.
- Medicine, so I could eat dairy. Don’t forget any medications you may require.
- The favors. A friend of mine said she and her husband painstakingly made favors the night before the wedding — and then forgot to bring them.
- Umbrellas. It was raining at the start of the day, but thankfully stopped by the time the wedding began. But we were prepared!
- Whiskey! A bridesmaid brought some, which I was thankful for when the stand-still traffic made us an hour and a half late to the venue. A little nip took the edge off. So consider bringing whatever will calm your nerves.
- A shawl. I didn’t think a July wedding in Tennessee would require one. But with all the rain, I was afraid it could end up being cool, so I grabbed a cream one from my mother at the last minute. I didn’t need it, but I was covered if I did.
- Band-aids for blisters on my feet.
- Handkerchief. That said, I didn’t have a plan to get it to me when I needed it, so when I was feeling emotional during the wedding ceremony, that handkerchief was nowhere in sight.
- Any details not part of the wedding you want your photographer to capture. I brought our invitations, and I considered bringing other items, like our welcome bag and save-the-dates as well, but decided against it. While everything had a similar vibe, it’s not like they were a matching suite of items, and I didn’t think it made sense to take photos of them separately. But I wished I had brought them and let our photographer determine whether she could make a good shot out of them. I regret preemptively making the decision.
- The sign-in book, pens and glue stick, so people could glue in their pictures from the photo booth.
- Lawn games.
- Tips for vendors and envelopes to distribute them.
Make note of what’s relevant to you, and feel free to add to the list in the comments!
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